Friends I can not even begin to explain to you how excited I am to finally share this with you all. Not only because I am horrible at keeping ‘secrets’ but because this project has been a dream of mine forever.
& it is finally here. & ready.
Let me introduce you to my new “baby” – my new mission & my new website:
Unspoken Grief ™ | understanding & support for perinatal grief
Mission:
to create a safe space for individuals & families touched directly or indirectly by miscarriage, stillbirth & neonatal loss to share their stories, feelings and thoughts about grief, loss, hope or society. Our society has a lack of understanding and a level of discomfort with the grieving process surrounding the loss of a pregnancy and it is our hope that we bring these topics out into the open and create a community where families are supported, understood and remember our children who left too soon.
You all know my story behind my 10 miscarriages. I am lucky that i have all of you for support. I wish i had this blog 5 years ago when i had experienced my first miscarriage & had you all with me along the way.
I now have an outlet. I didn’t then.
Before Accustomed Chaos and my first post on miscarriage I never spoke too much about them. To anyone. Mostly because it just seemed that was the way it was ‘supposed to be’. I had no one to talk about the feelings during my miscarriage, after my miscarriage and my future. There was no where to talk about it.
Building this community & having all of you for support something started to evolve. I was getting emails from women who had just gone through a miscarriage, & emails from people who’s friend or sister had just gone through a miscarriage. They were looking to connect, looking for support & I was so honored they contacted me. I built a huge “community” (in private emails) & i was the only one getting the benefits from the community – because the other women didnt know each other.
That NEEDED to change.
Unspoken Grief is a group blog, support network, community, forum & resource page for ANYONE touched directly or indirectly by miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal loss. A safe place to talk about your children, your grief, your fears, hopes, dreams and feel connected to others who have been ‘there’. Discussions about your real life – in the moment or in the past or for the future.
YOUR stories. Posted by you. Supporting each other in our perinatal grief – the good, the bad & the ugly. Building a community where this is OK to talk about – where we can feel understood and supported. Changing society’s perception of the lasting effects of miscarriage, stillbirth & neonatal loss.
You are able to post as often or as little as you want. The community is there whenever you need it. Working to bring perinatal grief out of the closet. Support for each other and the understanding that we are not alone.
That this is ok to talk about. That this is important.
I have a million other dreams for this new site that will slowly evolve as the community grows. I am so excited to learn from each other and build a great network for a grief that is so misunderstood.
Please visit UnspokenGrief.com and you can sign up to register and post. I would be grateful if you could add a badge to your website or refer this to the women, men, families, friends in your lives who may be looking for support. Unspoken Grief can also be found on Facebook and Twitter.
Thank you so much to all of you who have supported me as I developed this dream. Thank you to those who have registered & posted already & thank you all for support! It means the world to me.
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I am so happy and proud of you! I am one of your biggest fans, you know that Good luck…this new community is going to touch so many women/families!
Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 9:43 am
thank you SO much Tina!
What a beautiful venture Devan. Best wishes.
Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 11:04 am
♥ thank you so much!
Twitter: randi094
February 7, 2011 at 1:14 pm
You rock Devan!!! What an amazing thing to do and I’m so happy for you
! I have yet to exerience a miscarriage but if I ever do or if someone I know does, I will have somewhere to turn and tell other about.
Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 7:09 pm
Thank you so much Miranda!
Twitter: MommyMoments
February 7, 2011 at 1:28 pm
Congratulations Devan! So many women will be able to benefit from your wisdom now. This type of community is long overdue!
Maija
Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 7:09 pm
♥ thank you Maija
Twitter: naptimemomtog
February 7, 2011 at 2:28 pm
What an amazing idea. So awesome of you. Congrats on the launch. Going to check it out now.
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Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 7:09 pm
Thank you Sarah! Im excited its launched!
Congrats! I’m sure this will be an invaluable source of information, comfort and support for many people.
Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 11:39 pm
Thank you so much Cheryl. I really hope it will be ♥
Twitter: GlutenFreeBlog
February 7, 2011 at 4:00 pm
Wow Devan!
I can’t tell you how thrilled I am for you! I know you are going to be successful.
Please let me know if I can help you in any way. As you know, my dear departed sister went through several miscarriages.
You go girl!
Jayne
Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 7:10 pm
xxoo thank you so much for all your support!!
Twitter: glutenfreedeals
February 7, 2011 at 4:33 pm
How great to hear. Wish you the very best in this wonderful new endeavor!
Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 7:10 pm
thank you Brady!
Congratulations on launching this new endeavor, one that will undoubtedly help many women and those who love them.
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Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 10:49 pm
Thank you Mungee! I am so happy it has been launched & look forward to the community growing – support is long overdue.
Twitter: Shirleygfe
February 7, 2011 at 10:10 pm
Wow, Devan! You are such a blessing to all. Bravo on making this happen! What a wonderful comforting resource it will be for so many!
Hugs,
Shirley
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Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 10:49 pm
THANK YOU Shirley. I really do hope it helps many. it’s been a dream for so long.
Twitter: Complicatedmama
February 7, 2011 at 11:17 pm
CONGRATS!!! Wishing you all of the best- you know I am here following – always
Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 11:28 pm
i love you. thanks ♥
Twitter: mrsnotouching
February 7, 2011 at 11:33 pm
So glad I found you – best of luck and I will be lurking around for sure.
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Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 7, 2011 at 11:34 pm
♥ thank you – please do feel free to join in anytime. Unspoken Grief is also on twitter (http://twitter.com/UnspokenGrief) & Facebook (http://facebook.com/UnspokenGrief)
Twitter: fourplusanangel
February 9, 2011 at 7:41 pm
What an amazing thing you are doing. I lost my daughter when she was an infant and I have been thinking about trying to link other moms going through the same for a while now and I think you have just inspired me to do it. Love what you are doing.
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Twitter: AccustomedChaos
February 9, 2011 at 8:41 pm
Thank you so much Jessica. Hugs to you & your Angel daughter ♥
Twitter: fourplusanangel
February 9, 2011 at 8:42 pm
Okay I misread and did not realize you included neonatal loss, I’m in. Thanks again for what you are doing.
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