My husband and I were sitting around on Sunday having a ‘lazy’ day (we both had the flu!) and so we rented some movies for the kids. Typical movies from Disney are the kids favourites (we have a large collection) and we rented and started watching Chicken Little.
Somewhere in the haze of my fever I noticed that Chicken Little doesn’t have a mother, she had passed away. I am not sure if it was the flu, the un-characteristically quiet day or just an epiphany, but that spiraled into a montage in my head of all the Disney movies where the mother of the main character has died and they are without a mother figure at all or worse – an evil stepmother.
I turned to my husband and mentioned to him my thought; that many of the Disney movie characters have had their mother pass away or just not around. He dared me to mention 5 more and the list unfolded:
Cinderella
Mother passed away when she was just young – her father re-married an ‘evil stepmother’ who forced her to be a maid. Also in Cinderella III we learn that Prince Charming’s mother has also passed away.
Snow White
Mother passed away when she was young also and was raised by her ‘evil stepmother’ who tried to kill her.
Aladdin
Princess Jasmin’s mother is no longer alive and she is raised solely by her father. Aladdin also has no parents.
Beauty and the Beast
Belle is raised only by her father.
Little Mermaid
Ariel’s mother is no longer in the picture – she is raised only by King Triton
Sleeping Beauty
Aurora is a bit different. Her mother and father are both alive, but she is raised by three women. She is not raised by her mother though and is lead to believe her mother is not alive. Her prince in the movie, Prince Philip, is also without his mother.
Pocahontas
Pocahontas does not have her mother in the
film either. She is only raised by her father the Chief.
Now, what is particularly troubling about this list is that these are all but 2 of the
Disney Princess characters – and all of these are without their mother. Mulan has both of her parents, however you see her father and grandfather taking more of a role in the movie. Princess Tiana is raised only by her mother without a father in the picture.
The theme continues on as you get into the animal themed Disney movies:
Finding Nemo
Nemo’s mother dies at the beginning of the
film leaving him to be raised by his father Marlin
Bambi
Bambi’s mother is killed at the end of the
movie (yes he is raised by his mom but he is still left without her at a young age).
Dumbo
Dumbo is taken away from his mother at the start of the
movie and spends the rest of his time with his sidekick until he is reunited at the end.
Chicken Little
Chicken Little is
without his mother and is raised by his father. He has no close female in his life.
Ratatouille
Remy the mouse in
Ratatouille is only being raised by his father who he feels no connection to. He has no close female role model in his life either.
I grew up watching all the Disney Princess classics and never noticed this connection before. I know there are a lot of debates on the effect Disney Princess has on young girls and the ‘complex’ they can acquire because of the merchandise. The belief that a Prince Charming will come by on his horse and save you from your difficult life. I am wondering what is the more harmful message – that we need a Prince to save us or the imagery that there are no positive mothering figures in most of these movies?
I was shocked that I was not only able to quickly name 5 movies with the ‘no-mother theme’ but actually named 12 movies and didn’t need to struggle. I am sure there are more out there with a similar theme by Disney (this list is not even counting the movies where the character has neither parent) and I am kind of left wondering if there is some kind of underlying ‘mother issue’ within the Disney movies?
What are your thoughts? Do you think this has some form of impact on our young girls and boys?
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On one hand, it's good to see the fathers of some of those characters being involved and providing a good role model. Sadly there are many kids who do not have an active father figure, so this benefits those children.
But to have that many movies where the main character doesn't have or looses his/her mothers is a little disturbing. I think there are some definite "mother issues' in there.
I agree that it is great to see such positive male figures in Disney movies – and that does benefit those growing up without that influence.
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It's like that because in order for the adventure to happen, the nuturing mother has to be gone. The child must be forced into independence and the shorthand for this is to eliminate the mother. It's a common literary device seen throughout the centuries from Jane Austen to Charlotte Bronte to Harry Potter. I don't think it's a Disney conspiracy.
Thanks for your comment 'Anonymous'. I don't think its a conspiracy necessarily – i can understand the need for the story. What my trouble with it is that these Disney stories are marketed to children as young as 1 year old and I just don't understand why all of the stories need to have the same theme. The Jane Austen/Harry Potter/Charlotte Bronte stories are for much older children/teens and older so they would understand that concept much more.
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Good point!
Never noticed that. You have a good point. In the movie Finding Nemo, the mom dies before Nemo is born.
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I think the authentic, “old” fairy tales often used the device of an absent mother because so many women used to die in childbirth. The likelihood that a woman wouldn’t be around to parent her children, or that a step-mother might not bond with/love her husband’s children probably informed some of those stories. But I agree that a constant diet of these movies isn’t good for girls — too many women stay in abusive relationships thinking that their circumstances will magically change, or that someone else will save them, or that enough love will change an unhealthy man.