This weekend I am going to try something new. Something that I should do more often but for some reason I haven’t. I am making it a goal until Monday. I am going to stick with it and hope that it gives me what I am looking for.
I am going to unplug for Saturday – Monday morning. I am going to stop all notifications on my phone. I am not going to check page views, comments, email or twitter. I am going to avoid the internet for all work/blog related things.
unplug.
I need to regroup. I need to focus on my family – on myself. I am slowly creeping into blogger burn out and to avoid that this is what I need to do. I love my work, I love engaging with all of you and getting your feedback, getting to know you and being available to answer questions. I love it but that is why I need to take a very mini-vacation from it all.
I have a weird fear that if I am not available I will miss out on something or that I will not respond quick enough to someone’s question or call for help/information. I don’t like that feeling but in order for me to be able to do that – I need to focus on me sometimes too, right?
Especially now with a kidney stone that is not letting up – rest that needs to be recouped and the danger time of the month for me is creeping up. So, if you need me I will be back again Monday morning – until then … have a great weekend!
{side note: I am working on a post for Babble highlighting photos of real mom’s breastfeeding. if you have a photo you would be willing to contribute please email it to me with your name and blog url if you have one to accustomedchaos(@)gmail.com. Thanks!}
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Twitter: itsdilovely
October 22, 2011 at 1:06 pm
BRAVO, Devan. We should all be doing this!
Sometimes, this is EXACTLY what you need! Trust me, you’re doing the right thing and as your break goes on, that little nagging I’m-missing-something feeling will go away
Well, as much as it can anyway. LOL
And for goodness sake woman, feel better!!
Twitter: MommyMoments
October 24, 2011 at 8:55 am
SO???? How was it… did you do it without cheating?
Hope it was EXACTLY what you needed.
Maija
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Twitter: AccustomedChaos
October 24, 2011 at 10:30 am
I will write an update today
Twitter: daddyrunsalot
October 24, 2011 at 2:49 pm
Ok – so I’m only reading this after the weekend, and I saw that I have another post of yours, so you’ve obviously checked back in & survived . . . I love unplugging, but never, ever get the chance to do it. and I’m the same as you, terrified I’d miss something big, only, after unplugging, I realize that the definition of “big” really is different.
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